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Compare UK Dating Sites: Find the One That Fits You

Plenty of Fish, Tinder and Badoo are all-purpose apps where you sort through everyone yourself. Encounters.uk suits UK adults who would rather start in a section built around what they want.

Match the site to the mood you’re in

Each one has its own idea of how people should meet, from the swipe to the personal ad. What sets them apart is who you’ll find there, and how you find them.

Encounters.uk
For UK adults who like to know what someone wants before saying hello. There are four sections, each with its own members: Casual Encounters for fun with no strings, Single Encounters for a relationship, Mature Encounters for over-40s, and Milf Encounters for confident older women and the younger men who admire them. It all runs in your browser.
Plenty of Fish
For anyone after a long-running, general dating app. It began in Canada in 2003, Match Group bought it in 2015, and its own site still says dating, chatting and matching come with the basic membership.
Tinder
For people who love the swipe and are open to anything from a drink to a relationship. It launched in 2012, sits in the Match Group family too, and offers Double Date for meeting up with a friend in tow.
Badoo
For people who want dates and new friends in the same app. Going since 2006 and now part of Bumble Inc., it lets you chat before you match and has video chat built in.
Doublelist
For adults who miss the old Craigslist personals and would rather post an ad than build a profile. It started in 2018, is run from San Francisco and has boards for UK cities.
Encounters Dating
A separate site with a similar name, run by a different company. It works with The Times and The Sunday Times and is aimed at singles who are serious about finding love.

Six sites, one quick look

All six are for adults aged 18 and over, so the table compares how each one works once you’re in. Each service’s details come from its own website, its app store listing or reputable reporting.

Checked 14 October 2026
MessagingMade forWays to meetWhere you use it
Encounters.uk
Classic members: a set number a day, and replies to VIP membersUK adults, by section: casual, love, over 40s, MilfDaily matches, swipes and browsingAny browser
Plenty of Fish
Included in the basic membership, says its own siteAll kinds of singles in one poolMeet Me swipes and searchWebsite and apps
Tinder
In the basic app, once you matchAny intention, from a drink to a partnerSwipes, prompts and Double DateApps and the web
Badoo
In the basic app, even before you matchDates, friends and chatSwipes, People Nearby and video chatWebsite and apps
Doublelist
Private messages, with paid extras on topPersonal ads, by cityPost or answer adsWebsite and apps
Encounters Dating
One-line notes on the basic membership; full messages need a subscriptionSerious dating, linked with The TimesTwo-way matchingWebsite and its own app

Go head to head, one rival at a time

Each comparison sets Encounters.uk beside one service on messaging and upgrades, who you’ll meet, matching, privacy and getting started, and says plainly when the other one may suit you better.

Start where everyone wants the same thing

Encounters.uk, online since 2014, settles the “what are you looking for?” question before the first message. You join the section that fits, and everyone around you joined it for the same reason. The site has over 1,200 members, three in four of them aged between 25 and 54, with the most in Greater London, then the West Midlands, Hampshire and West Yorkshire.

Matching does the rest. Each day you get suggestions based on age, gender, distance, how recently people were active, what they want (casual, long-term or friendship), lifestyle choices such as drinking and smoking, interests and religion. Prefer to trust your gut? Swipe right for yes and left for no. You can post status updates and photos, comment on what other members share and join the polls and quizzes, which gives you something to talk about besides the weather.

Privacy comes as standard. Members see a username and a nearest town or city, and that’s all: no real name, no email, no address, no live location. You can block anyone so they can’t contact you again, and report a profile or message from inside the site. Every member starts on Classic membership, which covers your profile, photos, browsing, daily matches and a limited number of messages a day, and you can read and reply to whatever a VIP member sends you. Our features page lists every extra, and the pricing page has each plan.

Straight facts, straight from the source

Everything these pages say about another service comes from its own website, its app store listing or reputable reporting, checked on 14 October 2026. Each rival’s paid options are named, so you know what you’d be buying. App prices move with the plan, the platform and the offer of the week, so the app itself is the place to see today’s figure. Where a rival suits someone better, the page says so.

Know the answer before you sign up

Want to know who is behind Encounters.uk and how long it has been around? Is Encounters.uk legit? gives a straight answer. Missing the old Craigslist personals? Is there a casual encounters site in the UK? covers where that kind of fun lives now. For first dates, profiles and meeting people nearby, browse our dating guides or see who’s close to you on our location pages.

Comparing dating sites: your questions

Which dating site is best in the UK?

It depends on what you’re after. Plenty of Fish suits anyone who wants a long-running, general app with every kind of single in one pool. Tinder suits keen swipers who are open to anything from a drink to something long-term, while Badoo suits people who want new friends as well as dates. Doublelist is for adults who would rather post a personal ad than keep a profile, and Encounters Dating, a separate site with no link to ours, is for singles who are serious about finding love. Encounters.uk suits UK adults who want to know what someone is looking for before saying hello, with a section each for casual fun, relationships, over-40s and Milf dating.

Is Encounters.uk the same as Encounters Dating?

No. Encounters Dating is a separate UK site, run by a different company and connected with The Times and The Sunday Times. Encounters.uk has no link with it. Our page on Encounters.uk vs Encounters Dating shows how to tell them apart.

What replaced Craigslist casual encounters in the UK?

Craigslist took its US personals offline in March 2018, and its London pages have no personals section today. Doublelist offers personal ads in the same style. If you would rather have a profile and daily matches with UK adults, Casual Encounters is our 18+ section for fun with no strings.

Do I need to download an app to use Encounters.uk?

No. Encounters.uk works in the browser on your phone, tablet or computer, and you can add it to your phone’s home screen so it opens like an app.

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